| "He tries too hard. Something about it is wrong. This guy must have something to hide ... he must be unsure themselves. "In other words, they often attempt to do obvious delight of women, the more its radar system screams:" loser ". By the way the radar is rarely wrong. So if you want to get rid of the problem of nervousness, which appears when you call her to ask for a date, then at the beginning you search in vain for reasons which you produce such a state. Until then, the issue will not die. Ask yourself the question, which I mentioned above. Then associate with specific situations in the past. At the end ask yourself again: "What if I did wrong?" So do not try to offer exquisite dinner, because her reasoning go out on a man who is trying to use food as bait for fish. If the first sentence of your paragraph will be: "I would like to you take on board ", it will be interpreted as:" I do not think it probable that it will accept an invitation to spend time with me until I will throw in something extra. "Therefore, instead of officially propose to meet her, tell about what you do today, then tell her that can join if they wish. Say for example: "Hey, I'm going to go to a cafe for a cup of tea. You ought to join me. This option is much more fun than anything else, what are you going to do ... I guarantee!" This way you show that you have their attractive force and plans, and she has the opportunity on the occasion of your potowarzyszyć. If it starts to hesitate, just stop it and say: "Hey! you are a person that lacks confidence. "or" Never mind. I suppose you do not like fun ...". It is this particular moment, when she has to decide. Obviously this is not a rule that if it refuses, it really must not want to leave with you. May have finally some important plans. However, if it is, and you przeprowadziłeś telephone conversation should be like, then usually you will hear from her mouth free next time. Remember when unavailable. You should consider yourself the first time what it will give. If, for example, says: "Today I am late for school, but tomorrow I am free from the sixteenth". |
